Jodhpur City Center

We are once again back in Rajasthan in the north. Thankfully it is much cooler than it was a few weeks ago; but still, extremely interesting & very chaotic.

On our first day our guide took us to the city center by the old clock tower where we were able to see how the locals shop.

The Ghanta Ghar is wound every Friday by hand by one man. His family has done this job for over 100 years & only he knows how to do this task. He will pass this knowledge & job to his son.

On this trip we have found the Indian people to be the kindest & friendliest people we have ever met. I wonder if this is because of how kind they are to all animals. Every morning, the first piece of bread is offered to a dog or cow in the neighborhood. The same is done in the evening with the last piece of bread.

Some dogs get so much food given to them that they aren’t even hungry

In walking through the market our guide showed us a no-kill mouse trap. It is not considered appropriate to kill a mouse because Ganesh who is the Hindu god of Wisdom, Luck, & New Beginnings uses a mouse as his vehicle & is considered as a symbol for him to overcome obstacles.

Humane Mouse trap- food is put inside & the trap door closes when the mouse takes the bait

In the same location we also visited the Toorji Ka Jhalra Stepwell. It was built in 1740 & has now been restored.

Twilight traffic passing through an old city gate

For Westerners, it is hard to understand how traffic works here. The streets are overflowing with people, scooters, cars, trucks, tuk-tuks, carts, and cows & dogs. Nary a second passes without a horn sound blaring; yet, somehow it works & we always get to where we are going OK.

Thankfully, we had a peaceful quiet hotel in which to rest. It once belonged to a wealthy family & is now a beautiful hotel.

The Magnificent Buddhist & Hindu Caves

When our tour agent first mentioned going to see caves, I wasn’t so keen on the idea; but I trusted her judgment. So glad that we did! These are not traditional caves in the way you might think. Rather they are ancient temples & monasteries carved out of solid rock with vibrant, magnificent, imaginative paintings still in their original colors. Needless to say, both sites are UNESCO World Heritage sites

The Ellora Caves are located about an hour drive from Aurangabad.

The temples & monasteries carved out of & into rock were constructed over 350 years in the 6th – 10th Centuries CE. They are hewn out of a vertical rock face stretching over several kilometers. The structures are both Hindu & Buddhist.

They were originally started to provide monks with a safe & dry place to stay on their travels throughout India.

Each cave became more & more intricate. In the first cave our guide did a small chant for us. The acoustics were mesmerizing!

One structure rivals & even surpasses Petra in Jordan & the rock-hewn churches in Lalibela, Ethiopia, in scope, scale, & intricate rock carvings.

The second day we drove 2.5 hours to the Ajanta Caves which are all Buddhist.

After falling into disuse due to constant wars & being covered by the jungle, the caves were rediscovered in 1819 by British Captain John Smith while he was hunting a tiger. Our guide even guided Smith’s great, great grandson to this site a few years ago.

The caves are cut from & into a rock wall in a horseshoe- shaped gorge. There are 30 caves here; but, many are unfinished because the sponsoring king died which meant funding stopped to finish the caves.

Unlike the Ellora Caves, many caves have paintings on their walls & ceilings that depict Buddha’s life & teachings. Because the paints were made from minerals, they have lasted 1,500 years & have never been repainted or touched up.

Even though they were smaller in size than the Ellora Caves, the structures carved from stone were just as beautiful.

Our guide told us that when they were in use, each cave would be occupied with monks & their followers.

Then, we tried to get enlightened & follow a monk’s life.

Or, maybe just be a little crazy.

We were once again very fortunate to have a kind & knowledgeable guide. He was able to explain the meaning behind many carvings & paintings as well as explain how these caves were carved with simple explanations. I feel I now understand Hinduism a little better. I know I enjoyed each site more with his knowledgeable background.

With our excellent guide Sanjay

We enjoyed the best Indian biryani at our hotel in Aurangabad. When I told the chef it was the best biryani we ever had, he wanted to get his picture with us. He also gave me my new favorite snack food Bhakarwadi to take along on our trip.

Mumbai

One of the first things you notice about Mumbai is the dense smog.

Mumbai is India’s 2nd largest city with almost 22 million people. It’s home to Bollywood movies & is a major business center. It’s a little like LA & NY combined India style.

We learned that the city was created by the British who mangled the local place name & called it Bombay.

At first glance Mumbai seems like a very modern Asian city on par with Hong Kong or Singapore. But, over the two days we toured it, we realized it is still very much India, just with more skyscrapers.

Like the rest of India, temples & holy sites are very much a part of Mumbai.

In Mumbai, cows are not allowed to roam the streets due to safety concerns. Rescue cows are kept at one temple making them “Holy Cows” where people can visit & feed them.

A highlight was visiting Mani Bhavan which is the house where Gandhi lived for 17 years.

We visited various parts in the city where life goes on the way it has for many years.

The Crawford Market sells everything including food, pets, & spices.

We just so happened to be in Mumbai on voting day & saw many people working on the election verifying people’s ID so that they can go to the polling place to vote.

Always good to take some time to have fun with the locals.

One evening we visited the famous Victorian Terminus Station which due to its unique construction is also a UNESCO site. With gold inlays & plating along with intricate carvings & statues, it was the most expensive structure the British built in India.

Check out the stop lights. Makes them easier to see, especially at night.

One morning we got up early to visit another fish market.

Next we saw the laundromat… Mumbai style. This area is Dhobi Ghat which means “a place where washer men clean clothes & dries them.” It is the world’s largest open air laundry. Clothes are collected in neighborhoods, then labeled by number by customer. The clothes are then washed, dried, ironed, & delivered back to the owner.

No trip to Mumbai is complete without seeing the Gateway to India. The Gateway to India was finished in 1924 to commemorate the 1911 visit to India by the British Monarch George V & his wife Queen Mary.

Our last major stop was to one of the various Mumbai slums. The slum we visited is where over a million people live & is also where their jobs are. Because labor is VERY cheap, everything from having your vegetables chopped to having clothes made is done in the slums.

This is also where America’s plastic goods come to be recycled. China no longer takes this waste, so now it comes to India to be washed, sorted, & chopped into small pieces before going to factories to be melted & reused.

Hard to believe people live & work here; but, thankfully schools are nearby & we didn’t see any children working in the shops.
Two young girls on their way home from school wanted to see their picture in my camera. Cute 🥰

We ended our stay in Mumbai visiting the Taj Mahal Palace Hotel which is next to the Gateway of India.

The beautiful Taj Mahal Palace was built in 1903. It is just as beautiful in the inside as the outside is grand.

Some may remember it for the 2008 terrorist attacks. For this reason every hotel, we have stayed at has very high security.

With Thanksgiving just around the corner in the US, this means Black Friday is coming too. Here in India they have something different. 😂🤣🤪

Houseboat Cruise in Kerala

For an extremely relaxing 20 hours we had our own houseboat to cruise the lagoon, river, & canal backwaters south of Cochin.

It took our driver about 2 hours to drive us to Allepey. Along the way we passed many small villages with short glimpses through the palm trees revealing sandy beaches along the Indian Ocean.

Fallen tree was a hazard along the road

I saw a sign that said “Hot Chips.” I asked our driver what it meant & he said, “banana chips.” I thought it sounded like a great place to get some local junk food, so we stopped. Every thing we sampled tasted good; but, I only picked two kinds.

Once we arrived, a small power boat shuttled us to our private houseboat.

Over the next day, we enjoyed wonderful local meals & time to relax without all the loud, hustle bustle in the city.

A three man crew took care of us.

The view was always interesting.

We made one stop where we saw the oldest church in India which was founded in 427 CE during the Roman Empire.

About 2% of Indians are Christians; but, the % is much higher along the coast in Kerala due to the long European influence. We saw many churches on our drive to & from the houseboat.

It was a wonderful & peaceful way to wake up with a cup of tea.

Great experience.

Cochin (Kochi), India

Our next stop in India was historical, coastal city Cochin on the Arabian Sea (Indian Ocean). It is located in the southern Indian state Kerala.

This port city dates back to Roman times; but, a major change occurred in 1498 when the Portuguese arrived opening a direct sea route between Europe and India to export spices. Unlike Columbus 6 years earlier who thought he sailed to India, the sea route to India was established.

Even today Kerala is known to grow the world’s best cinnamon, cloves, & black pepper.

Today it is a thriving port city inviting cruise ships with many Western tourists. Unlike in previous places we visited, we are unremarkable to the locals, so, alas, our 15 minutes of fame has expired. 🤪🤣

Our hotel is located inside the original Portuguese fort that was later taken over by the Dutch, then the British.

Our hotel was on the southern end on 8th Bastion

Touring around the old fort, we visited Saint Francis Church which is the oldest European Catholic Church in India.

After seeing the church, we walked to the nearby coastline & saw the Chinese fishing nets that are lowered to catch the fish and raised for collection.

On our first morning, we visited a fish market & saw fishermen bringing in their fresh catch of the day.

An interesting site was the location where both hotels & locals bring their linens & clothes to be washed, dried, & pressed.

With many tourists there is no shortage of shopping in what is called “Jew Town”. It got its name because many Jewish people once lived here; but, now their homes are shops, hotels, & restaurants.

Bought a few small treasures to take home from this woman’s shop.

Jew Town also has many spice shops where you can buy the many spices grown in Kerala.

Not far from our hotel, I enjoyed shopping for a new summer dress & walked out with three for $20 each.

They only pulled out about 50 dresses for me to see

Besides finding clothes at a bargain price, you can also have alterations done quickly for a small amount. A skirt I bought a few weeks ago was too long. In 10 minutes it was altered & ready to go for only $3.50.

One highlight in Cochin was the Great K V Kathakali Theater where we enjoyed two performances.

The first was the traditional Kathakali Dance. The word “Kathakali” is derived from the Sanskrit words “Katha” which means “story” & “kali” which means “to play or perform”.

We arrived early enough to see the three main actors who were all men putting on their makeup.

At the beginning, one actor along with an explanation by an English interpreter showed the audience the variety of feelings she (played by a man) was able to portray with her facial expressions.

Every quiver of the lips, flicker of the eyes, & facial expression has great significance so they call this performing “eye dancing.

After the demonstration & explanatory comments, they put on a short play based on Indian lore involving lust, love, deception, & anger with a bit of violence thrown in. Just like your typical Hollywood blockbuster. 😂

The second performance we saw was a small classical Indian dance performance.

Here are a few more sights & memories from Cochin.

Our trusted driver Reuben for the last week. Always kind, helpful, & dependable.

Meeting People in Kalapathy

Festivals are always fun; but, meeting people & seeing their culture is even more enjoyable.

We spent three days in Kalapathy, India. One morning we got up extra early to watch the women do their daily front door entrance decoration with intricate designs called a Kolam.

First, the woman of the house cleans an area outside her door which has the previous day’s design. She cleans it simply by using water & a straw broom.

After the area dries, the woman of the house then makes her daily design using two methods- using dried rice flower is called Arikkolam, or using a liquid paste of rice & water called Maskkolam.

This woman is using the Maakkolam method.
This woman is using the Arikkolam method
This woman is using rice paste to make a design commemorating the chariots that will be pulled later in the day

On our first day we met this woman who sold candy & cookies from a small table cart. I told her she was beautiful. That made her day! She then told all her friends what I said. She told us she had always been told she was too dark to be beautiful.

We stopped & visited with her each day.

The festival also features unique fortune tellers. For less than a dollar, a tame parrot picks a card & the seer tells you about your strengths & weaknesses based upon the Hindu God picture on the card that the bird picks.

With our guide’s help, we were able to meet a local family & visit their home.

Each traditional home is built exactly the same. They have relatively small widths; but, they are very deep with a straight, unbroken hallway running from front to back to provide ample cooling & ventilation. They also all have a sump in them to drain the massive rainfall from the annual monsoons.

The front area is like a covered enclosed patio which leads inside to areas used for sitting, eating, & sleeping. Each house also contains the family’s Hindu Shrine for daily prayers. The last room in the house has the kitchen. Many years ago, the last rooms in the house were used to house their cows; now they are used for storage.

These homes only contained the basic essentials. The most modern appliance we saw was a flat screen television.

Home shrine with man doing nightly prayers.

While visting, we had a chance also to see the family preparing for the festival & learned how they made ground sandalwood to make a paste that is painted on the body.

This family also lived near a small temple of which they were very proud.

Each temple also has a spirit animal that they decorate to carry through the streets. This temple’s spirit animal was a mouse.

Other temples had an elephant & horse as their respective spirit animals.

In the evening or morning, locals sit on their small porch to chat with passerbys.

The family invited us to return the next day for the daily lunch sponsored by their temple. We first saw this in Delhi where volunteers from the temple cook food for the community.

All the food was served on a giant banana leaf & eaten by hand. Unfortunately, we chose not to eat the food because we were afraid we might have tummy problems later; but, our guide said it was very tasty. In any case, it was nice to be invited.

The festival also brought in many vendors who sold their wares along the streets. They sold food, kitchen items, jewelry, bangles, shoes, seeds, toys, & much, much more. Most are not from the area & slept by their stalls.

One huge surprise was how many people of all ages approached us to talk & asked to have their picture with us. Some spoke English & others communicated through our guide. At times the requests for taking photos with us were so constant, our guide very politely asked them to leave us alone so we could watch the festivities. Then they would just take our picture without them in it.

I tried my best never to say no to children who wanted a photo.

These two young kids came up to us in a restaurant & talked with us for five minutes. We learned the boy’s favorite school subject was English & his little sister’s was IT.

Then there were the guys I called the paparazzi. A group of men constantly took pictures of us everyday at the festival. On our last day, I saw them photographing us, so I asked them to be in a picture with us this time.

The chariot festival was an experience we will never forget. This is because we had an excellent guide who made sure we were always safe in the crush, in the right location to see & photograph the event, & got to meet so many friendly people.

Our super guide Thomas Ladies, eat your hearts out!

Chariot Festival in Kalapathy

After a week in Northern India, we are now in Southern India. The climate, food, & environment are totally different.

In the South, it is more tropical & humid. The nice change is that it is no longer dusty & many more people speak English. They are also extremely kind & friendly. We have been approached many times by adults telling us that their sons or daughters live & work in America. Even children come up to chat with us.

The main reason for coming to Kalapathy was to see Kalpathi Ratholsavam that involves a procession with huge chariots dedicated to Hindu gods & goddesses which spirited devotees celebrate. This religious event has been held for almost 700 years. However, it is not just a religious event; but, it is also a celebration of community, heritage, & devotion. The festival banishes any discrimination & all caste considerations & differences are put aside as people come to celebrate & pull these chariots which are considered rolling temples allowing people to see Hindu dieties & also for those dieties to see them.

The chariots which are made completely from wood are called “raths”. They are carefully decorated with flowers, fabrics, & finely carved designs. The chariots are the festival’s main focal point & preparing them starts weeks in advance.

We arrived in time to enjoy the end of the celebration when the chariots that are 3-4 stories high have their decorations completed & are pulled through the city streets by Hindu worshippers using huge coarse ropes made from coconut husks.

On our first day, we saw the chariots before they were decorated.

The bottom portion on each chariot is made from intricately hand carved wood that depicts important dieties & stories in Hinduism. Some chariots are 100s of years old while others are less than 50 years old.

On the second day we began to see the chariots being decorated. The top part is first covered with very thin, white, plastic or paper flowers. Then, flags & ornaments such as cobras are added as decorations.

Lastly, people bring offerings such as bananas, limes, coconuts, & sugarcane which are attached at the bottom.

Each chariot has two huge long ropes made from coconut husks that people use to pull it

While we waited for the parade to begin, we enjoyed some chai tea with our guide & watched an elephant march down the street.

In the late afternoon, the chariot pulling began . On this festival day, three different sized chariots ( small, medium, & large) were pulled through the centuries old streets.

First, the drummers begin the parade.

Then, hundreds of men & women take hold of the large ropes & work together to pull the chariot. For the largest chariot, there may be a thousand people pulling it. Devotees pull the chariots to praise Lord Shiva, his consort Parvati, & Lord Ganapathy & to receive their blessings. Like entering a Hindu temple, you can only pull the chariots while barefooted & pulling a chariot is considered not only a privilege; but also, an auspicious act.

Children ride inside the chariot & wave to the crowd.

To help maneuver one large chariot around a corner through a turn on the street, an elephant wearing padding on its head was used to push it.

As you might expect, this festival attracts many Hindu devotees from all over the surrounding area in Kerala. Women often wear flowers in their hair & also wear beautiful silk sarees.

To our pleasant surprise, we were almost the only Westerners at the festival. We couldn’t even begin to guess how many times we were asked to pose for a selfie & the number of times people just took our picture. In fact, we even made the local news.

After being shown on the news, the next day this local policeman stopped us & said he recognized us from TV.
He shared the news clip below reporting on the festival in which you can see us.

Pushkar Camel Fair

Every November near the full moon, Pushkar has celebrated Kartik Mela since the 19th Century. Originally it was a time to sell livestock, mainly camels. It is now best known as the Pushkar Camel Fair.

Today most camel & horse buying or trading is done before the fair begins. We were told that nearly 20,000 camels come every year to be sold. Some come by walking from as far away as over 200 kilometers. By the time we arrived, most had been bought leaving only a few thousand which is still a lot of camels.

This year the fair began on November 9th so we were able to enjoy two days at this marvelous cultural event.

Day 1

First, we listened to & watched a drum team. Drums are very important in both the Hindu religion & in Rajasthan’s culture. The drums were accompanied by small cymbals & men blowing conch shells.

Our guide had us join the drum line for fun

Inside the stadium, various women decorated a wall by painting patterns & words of welcome.

There were 49 camels decorated with each pulling a camel cart. They were lined up for some time before their procession started which made it convenient to take pictures.

About 100 girls performed a dance for the crowd.

In the late afternoon, we rode a camel cart to where the camel & horse trading occurs. It was interesting to wander around this large area which is about the size of 10 football fields.

Before COVID, the camels were kept near town & the stadium. However for public health safety, the camels are now kept a couple miles away from town.

At sunset, we enjoyed watching a Gypsy dance group.

Day 2

We started the day taking the cable car up to the Savriti Temple. In 2011 I walked up to the temple; but, in 2016, a cable car was built so more people can visit it. Remember- Savriti was Brahma’s wife who cursed him because instead of waiting for her to finish her preparations so they could attend the Fire Festival together, impatient Brahma took a second wife without her knowledge or consent.

After visiting the Savriti Temple situated on a very high hill, we went to the stadium to see the camel decorating competition.

Each camel was adorned with colorful beads, ribbons, mirrors, & pompoms. Hours go into getting the camels ready.

Each camel is exhibited to the judges which requires them to walk in a large circle in a corral. This year nine camels participated.

After all the camels finished their promenades, the 1st, 2nd, & 3rd place winners were announced. However, unlike in past years, there was a big controversy. Three constants thought they had been cheated. They argued with the judges for almost 2 hours. At times, the shouting & yelling was quite loud accompanied by fingers being pointed & arms making wild gestures. In the end, the three were given a special prize to share among each other.

The day’s final event was the dancing camel competition in which there were only seven camels. Each camel was allotted 4 minutes for its performance. At the sound of drums, the camels pick up their front two feet like they are dancing, they walk on their knees, & jump on their hind legs. If a rider had been aboard, it would have looked like the Lone Ranger rearing up his trusty steed Silver on his hind legs.

Because the camel decorating controversy took so long to resolve, we did not wait for the camel dancing results. Sorry, to leave you hanging.

This year the fair will end on November 15 on the full moon. Thousands of pilgrims will arrive on this day to enter the Holy Lake.

The fair also has an elaborate Midway. Our guide told us it will remain for two weeks after the camel fair ends to be enjoyed during the Fire Festival, & then allow the locals to enjoy it without all the pilgrims & foreign tourists before it moves on.

Pushkar is a very holy & sacred city to all Hindu worshipers. You will always find holy men in the city asking for alms.

The holy city only has a few rules for tourists to follow which are posted on a city gate.

We ended our last night in Pushkar at our fancy hotel restaurant & very attentive waiters. There was also another Gypsy dance group outside the main hotel.

On our drive to the airport, we saw some camels on the way home. Maybe they were bought at the fair.

Arriving in Pushkar

To get from Udaipur to Pushkar, we had a 5.5 hour drive. Even though most of the highway was on a toll road, there were many times our driver had to slow down & maneuver around cows or goats in the road.

We passed a very large Krishna statue which was worth a small detour to see it. And, we got to be in more pictures with the locals.

Also saw this VERY large Shiva statue

Our hotel in Pushkar is a tented camp only used during the festival. It’s not luxurious; but, it is a new way to enjoy our time in India.

The restaurant for our tented camp is a mile away. They take us to & from our camp on a tractor pulling a flat bed.
Haven’t been on one of these since I was a child. It’s a little bumpy; but, faster than walking

Later in the afternoon, out guide met us to show us Pushkar.

Mukesh likes to call us Mama & Papa since we are close in age to his parents.

Even though Pushkar is a small town of only 24,000 people, it is the only place not only in India; but also, the only place in world where there is a Brahma Temple.

Brahma is the Hindu god known the Creator of the Universe & the God of Knowledge. However, he is the least worshipped Hindu god & here is why.

Brahma came to Earth to celebrate a fire festival in his honor in Pushkar. He told his wife Savitri when it was going to happen; however, she took her time getting ready in Heaven & missed the festival. All the Hindu gods were there & Brahma did not want to be embarrassed by not having a wife by his side at the festival in his honor, so to get the party started, he married someone else. When Savitri finally arrived & discovered Brahma took a second wife, she was furious.

She was so mad she put two curses on Brahma. Curse #1 was he would only be allowed to have one temple built in his honor which was in Pushkar. Curse #2 was no one can ask for a miracle at his temple; they can only ask for a miracle at the lake after visiting his temple.

For this reason, Hindus do not have Brahma in their home’s shrine. Only Vishnu the preserver & protecter and Shiva the destroyer of negativity are worshipped in their own homes.

Pushkar always has a lively bazaar; but, many out of town vendors come in for the camel fair doubling its size.

Pushkar’s Holy Lake is said to have started when Lord Brahma asked Vishnu to allow a temple to be built where he could be worshipped. Vishnu & Shiva had temples to worship them, so Brahma also wanted one. Vishnu dropped a lotus flower that circled the Earth three times before it landed in Pushkar & where it landed, a fresh spring came up creating the lake which is considered holy.

Historians know that people have been coming to the lake to worship since the 4th Century because images on Greek & Kushan coins. But, based on writings, it is believed worship here goes back to the 2nd Century BCE.

Today Hindu pilgrims come to Pushkar to bathe in the water, especially on the last day in the November fire festival when tens of thousands of pilgrims enter the lake.

While we were at the lake, our guide led us both in prayers that you make at the lake for your loved ones who have passed.

We were also able to enjoy the nightly ritual at the lake.

In the evening, we returned to the restaurant via a tractor ride. The restaurant is large & quite ornate. We were the only ones in it, so I felt like we were on the set of “Beauty & the Beast”. I kept waiting for the waiters to start singing, “ Be our guest… Be our guest…”

Must admit, we were treated like royalty.

Around Udaipur

Two interesting Hindu temples are a short 40 minute drive from Udaipur.

Nagda is a rural area that has Sasbahu temples from the 10th Century dedicated to Vishnu. We enjoyed exploring these small temples which have beautifully intricate carvings which reminded us of a miniature Angkor Wat which is located in Cambodia.

Some carvings include embracing lovers to which couples are supposed to pay homage to when visiting which must be why it is a popular place for pre-wedding photo shoots.

Only a short distance away, we visited the Eklingli Temple which is still active. Eklingli means “Lord Shiva” & this home to the manifestation of Shiva.

It is lovely marble complex containing 108 temples. The first temple was built in 734 CE. Most of the complex was entirely rebuilt in the 15th Century.

We arrived just in time to take off our shoes & enter the temple during prayers. Unfortunately, no photography is allowed inside the marble temple which also beautiful carvings & religious icons.

Also, no mobile phone usage is allowed in the temple & we saw the custodians enforcing that restriction.

We got in line with the large crowd, enjoyed the chanting, & listened to the music while we slowly moved in single file through the complex until we reached the main Shiva statue.

At this point, visitors can offer prayers & leave flower offerings before exiting the holy shrine.

You are also allowed to visit a handful of smaller temples which each contain a lesser deity. Upon hearing many bells ringing very loudly for a prolonged time, we knew the ceremony was over.

Outside the temple we enjoyed seeing & interacting with a few cows & seeing the local shops.

Afterwards, we enjoyed a relaxing lunch back in Udaipur during which I enjoyed a mojito.

The next day we also visit visited Badi Lake located in the Bahubali Hills.